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Abner, Arthur Thomas 'Tom'

Abner, Arthur Thomas 'Tom'

Male 1938 - 2020  (81 years)


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  • Name Abner, Arthur Thomas 'Tom' 
    Arthur Thomas 'Tom' Abner (1938-2020)
    Arthur Thomas 'Tom' Abner (1938-2020)
    Birth 22 Nov 1938  Beattyville, Lee County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Male 
    Reference Number ABNE.A001 
    _FGRAVE 209826115 
    Military Service United States Army Reserve 
    United States of America Flag, 48 Stars (1912-1959)

    In 1912, two stars were added to the United States flag, representing Arizona and New Mexico, bringing the total number of stars to 48. They were arranged in six rows of eight stars each. American fighting men would fight under this flag during four wars: World War I, World War II, the Korean War, and the beginning of the Vietnam War. (In 1959,…
    United States Army
    United States Army Enlisted Rank Insignia
    United States Army Reserves
    United States Army Reserves
    Death 6 May 2020  Flora, Clay County, Illinois Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Burial Floral Garden of Memories Cemetery, Flora, Clay County, Illinois Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Headstone, Abner, Arthur Thomas and Carolyn Sue
    Headstone, Abner, Arthur Thomas and Carolyn Sue
    Person ID I51090  Carl Wayne Gray Research
    Last Modified 4 Dec 2023 

    Father Abner, Arthur,   b. 1896   d. 1971 (Age 75 years) 
    Mother Kincaid, Carrie,   b. 1903   d. 1986 (Age 83 years) 
    Family ID F18810  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Erwin, Carolyn Sue,   b. 19 Feb 1944, Clay County, Illinois Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 7 Nov 2013, Flora, Clay County, Illinois Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 69 years) 
    Family ID F18497  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 22 Nov 1938 - Beattyville, Lee County, Kentucky Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 6 May 2020 - Flora, Clay County, Illinois Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBurial - - Floral Garden of Memories Cemetery, Flora, Clay County, Illinois Link to Google Earth
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  • Notes 
    • Arthur Thomas “Tom” Abner, age 81, of Flora, Illinois, passed away Wednesday morning, May 6, 2020, at his home surrounded by his family.

      He was born November 22, 1938, in Beattyville, Kentucky, the son of Arthur “Doc” and Carrie Alice (Kincaid) Abner. He was united in marriage to Carolyn Sue Erwin on June 25, 1965, at First Christian Church in Flora, and together they shared 48 years of marriage until her death November 7, 2013.

      Tom was a 1956 graduate of Flora Township High School and then continued his education at the University of Illinois. He graduated from U of I with a degree in Petroleum Engineering in 1961. After graduation, Tom enlisted with the Army Reserve. After finishing his reserve duties, he began working alongside his father at Abner Trucking Company.

      Tom began his oilfield career at an early age. His father worked for Gulf Oil, and Tom would do summer work as a roustabout for his father at the early age of 14. He continued this work, as well as pumping wells, up until his father retired from Gulf Oil. Tom’s father then started up Abner Trucking Company in 1958, and Tom began running oilfield tank truck services. It was just a few years later that Abner Trucking began their oilfield pulling unit services. From then on, Tom never looked back. He ran a pulling unit until the age of seventy-two at which time he did not retire, but instead, continued to mentor and manage his oilfield hands. This year marked the 62nd year of operation for Abner Trucking Company. Tom was a hard worker and took great pride in being a part of the Illinois oil industry.

      Tom was also a great family man. When Tom was not working, he enjoyed boating, riding his four-wheeler with his favorite dog Dottie sitting front and center, spending time with his children and grandchildren, and mowing. Mowing wasn’t work, it was a hobby, and you could tell he enjoyed it if you ventured past his property that looked like a well-groomed golf course.

      He is survived by three children: Randy (Erica) Abner of Flora, Michelle (Kenny) Pietz of Flora, and Jason (Patti) Abner of Los Angeles, CA; ten grandchildren: Jordan (Josh) Kessler, Gage (Lacey) Cobb, Donovan (Destinee) Cobb, Echoe Abner, Elsie Abner, Justin & Adam Pietz, Alexis Abner, William Abner, and James Abner; and six great-grandchildren.

      He was preceded in death by his parents; wife: Carolyn Abner; sister: Mitzi Goldstein; and an infant brother: William.

      A private ceremony is planned. Interment will be in Floral Garden of Memories Cemetery.

      Arrangements are in the care of Frank & Bright Funeral Home in Flora.

      Memorial donations are suggested to First Christian Church of Flora and will be accepted through the funeral home.